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Authors Note: I started writing this article several hours before the news broke of Britney’s child custody loss. The point of this article is not to belittle her situation but to show how our up and down periods relate to both our name meaning and name cycles.
At the age of 21, Britney Spears moved into a new period. According to her Name Meaning Cycles™ she moved into a period where letting go became more difficult. This once more balanced characteristic of her personality has now become more pronounced.
Britney's actual birth name, Britney Jean Spears, reveals a lot about her personality and what is going on with her right now. There are several characteristics in the name meaning, Britney Jean Spears, that can be quite challenging.
The first is a difficulty in letting go. The next very challenging personality characteristic comes from the Name Meaning behind the name Britney itself. The name Britney creates a personality trait of taking in but not letting go. A subtle but big difference from that of not just letting go. When an individual takes in but does not let go, they internalize what they keep in.
The last important personality characteristic in the Britney Spears name meaning comes from the middle name Jean. The middle name Jean carries the characteristic of difficulty of expression. Any person with this middle name will often find themselves being diplomatic when, in reality, they need to speak up and be honest about what is going on.
So what is happening with Britney? Britney is holding onto her pain and not allowing herself to release old emotions. Because she is trying to avoid the pain, the pain itself is getting repressed. The avoidance and holding on to this pain is causing a huge disconnection.
The name Britney Jean Spears has at least two characteristics in it that create a pattern of avoiding situations that might be painful. This avoidance is the actual root of the problem. When someone is avoiding, they can no longer be present to experience the natural nurturing effect of being in the moment.
Happiness and inner peace are both the natural effects of being present and in the moment. It is, in fact, impossible to not feel peace when we are present. If we are avoiding something, we are actually disconnecting from that which nurtures us.
The remedy and quick fix in a situation like Britney’s is to simply become present. We become present by allowing ourselves to experience what is happening in the moment, even our pain. When we are present and allow ourselves to freely express and experience our emotions we experience peace.
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